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Thursday, August 21, 2008

Unexpected morning visit

Oh my God!
Guys guess who just left my office now.
O!
I was standing at the reception talking with a colleague when he walked in. My heart did a backflip, I swear. You know, it was just so unexpected like he is the last person I expected to see this morning.
I led the way to my office and thankfully, my colleague who I shared office with wasn’t around so we had all the privacy we needed.
Long and short of the tory is that. Bobo has been miserable for the past one week and doesn’t want me to give up on us easily. I told him, I had already given up and was trying to heal. He said he was going to pretend he didn’t hear that. “Trying to heal over what now?” he asked.

Anyway, he is ready to meet my folks and wants me to meet his mum but then again he still wants us to take things a bit slow. In his own words “Let’s us grow together Aphrodite”.
I asked him “O tell me the truth, do you think you are psychologically ready for marriage” and his reply was “Yes I am very ready”.
"I hope I am not pressuring you or anthing. I want my husband to be crazy about marrying me and not feel that that I pressured him into doing so"
"Babes, stop saying that now. I am crazy about you, serious!"

Me I don’t know what to do again o. I’m kinda confused. I am still very much in love with him. In fact lemme confess. He was sitting far from me o, but do you know when he left, I realized my panties were soaking wet. Kai dis my treacherous body!

He has left now. He had an official assignment outside the office and used the opportunity to drop by although he promised to come back as soon as he is through with the assignment.

The last thing he said to me before he left was “Aphrodite, I love you. I really do”.

Jesu!

49 comments:

Anonymous said...

Uhnm O is back with a bang oh!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Babes I do not envy oh............

MG

mizchif said...

It's a lie! Me kwa, no.2nd!
I can't believe dis!!

Babes, hmmm, i see u must've been VERY EXCITED @ d mere sight of O!

Hope things work out for the best for you dear!

princesa said...
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Flourishing Florida said...

hmmmm

oh well.

refer 2 d gist i gave u abt my friends whose babes 'fast-forwarded' their wedding dates.

it's all up 2 u, dear. believe me, not every woman will get dat Cinderella wedding tale we all crave.

Flourishing Florida said...

on another note: have u read abt d couple n Florida?? d woman wanted marriage, she gave him an ultimatum. he accepts & they start planning a wedding, few weeks (or so) 2 d date, bobo pulls out of it! d lady sues him, insisting dat d man never really wanted 2 go 2ru wit d wedding - he just ddnt want 2 lose her yet!!!!!!

i believe some men later grow resentful of d women who made dem get married earlier dan they were psychologically (or otherwise) ready. usually, it's better if d decision 2 marry originated 4rm d man. cos dear, during planning dis wedding procedure, u would wonder WTF!!! i mean, MM has been pushed 2 d wall so many times, dat had it not been his solemn decision 2 go 2ru wit dis marriage, am sure he'd have been seriously tempted 2 call it off.

bottom-line, whatever u decide 2 do, work with ur head not ur heart. marriage is not all abt romance. weigh all ur for & against d decision 2 continue wit O, & den take ur gamble, & hope (pray) it works out well eventually

Afrobabe said...

kai...6th....abeg make I go chop I dey come...

This ur love life requires plenty nush!!!

ShonaVixen said...

7th??Where did all these one come from o??U all think u are Blogville's answer to Usain Bolt no?LOL

Go O, Go O...as u know i'm for team O and the fact that he makes u so wet..more power to O..lol..ok on the reals though, I'm happy for you girl, and i'll pray that it all works out for you!!xoxo

Naija Idol said...

8th spot. im getting better@ this.

Aphrodite said...
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Buttercup said...

oh wow..

O must be uber sexy, for his mere presence to get u wet...eeeyaaaa!

i dont even know what to advise again..

i guess the time he took to think did him some good..for him to have suggested meetin the parents n all..

princesa said...

@aphro, lol!i wan confuse u small, lol!!

Buttercup said...
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princesa said...

lol!

Anonymous said...

You go O!

I always believed in the boi but no all of you were castigating my guy!

una see am?!

doll (retired blogger) said...

15 damn

doll (retired blogger) said...

while am sKeptical. i am happy for you since u seem happy. all d best babes

Aphrodite said...
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Aphrodite said...

Sorry for the mix up there guys. I discovered a certain friend of mine was hacking into my account. Silly girl,lol...
It's sorted out tho.

Aphrodite said...

@anon, yes he is...
@mizchif, i was o,i no lie
@florida, thanks for having my back babes and for the advice as per working with my head.
@afro,lol...
@shona, thanks babes.
@naijaidol, yes u are
@buttercup, yes he is. At least to me,lol...
@princesa, u craze girl. You want open my nyash, silly,lol...Oya post better comment jare
@chari, lol...you have been one faithful O supporter sha
@doll, thanks babes.

O'Dee said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
Your man is coming through.
Thats a good sign.

He must have serious effect on you, d one that you were soaking wet.

Anonymous said...

I'd hate to say I told u so Aphro...but once again I was ryt!!!

admit it! I told u this guy dug u didnt I?

Aphrodite said...

@oluwadee,yes he does o. I just realised it today,lol...

@chari, okay okay. Bros i don hear o! But then whether he truly digs me or not is yet to be proven.

Afrobabe said...

Hey why did u kick me out???

somehow I believ u are pushing him to the wall..I wouldn't take any declarations too serious right now...

Ms.O said...

You see I was for team O too!!! Not just because he is Edo..like me!!!! Anyways I think you should do what he says and take things slow. No neeed to rush into marriage. and if he makes you wet just at his mere sight and you love him this much..please girl better use ur head and not the pressure folks and others are putting on you...

HAPPY DECISION MAKING!!!!...XOXO!!

Unknown said...

I can't see pass this wet business o. Hmmm. So...any comment is extremely compromised right now, lol.

On a more serious note, it is time to prioritize head over heart oh. Any guy that has that kind of effect on you...use head, use head. Even if it's a struggle. No pun intended!

Rebirth said...

i hope things go really well this time.... just tread carefully...... all the best!

zara (my alter ego) said...

YEPARIPA!! even i was convinced by that and i wasnt even there.. chei.. which kain thing be this now.. ok.. lemme be an o supporter again.. do u ahve to marry shrply? cos if u dont ... growing together seems like a very lucrative deal oo.. dont mind me.. had to say that..lol

badderchic said...

echoing free flowin

dear, its all up to you babe!

Mz. Dee said...

wat i have to say isnt new sha... jst take it easy babe...

i still think u shud try n detach 4rm all these guyz n start over tho..

LG said...

*pinches aphro's ear*
stubborn gal, wat have i always told u????? ehn wat?????

Thirty + said...

So O is back on scene again?

So what have you decided.

Jay said...

O is back and our girl is happy again :). Good good...things can only get better...hope it works out xxx

Femi Adeyemi said...

Hope things work out the way you want oh..But i'd be a bit sceptical about O's marriage moves and hope he's not going about it just cos u pushed..

Softly softly tread..

Have a good weekend..

Nice guy said...

isnt the wettness a sign from above that u two were destined together(hehe)?

princesa said...

Babes which proper comment u what again? You know what i feel about the matter abeg!

But then like others havwe said, dont be too quick to make a decision. Tread carefully o!

Simi Speaks said...

lmao! soaking wet??! hahahha.

Am shouting Jesu right along with ya!

Smaragd said...

yepa! four posts in two weeks...

i've read up on all of them in one sitting (clap for me)...

hmmmm... this one pass me well well! infact, i am speechless. But one thing is certain Sweets, as long as u are happy with your decision, then i will always be happy for u okay?

i'll be back to say more, i have to go for a surprise party now *winks*

toodles!

ibiluv said...

you don marry gbam............

cos once a man makes up his mind.........you don enter be dat oooooooooooo

Zayzee said...

im glad he came back. but pls be sure he is ready for the journey so u can ve a blissful marriage. there are lots of guys in their late 30s who arent ready for marriage and many in their 20s who are, so let him be sure.


God is on ur side.

FineBoy Agbero said...

I still dey vex...
Where is X?

I dont believe dat O boy o...

NikkiSab said...

JUGUNUN!!!! Wat a lovely goodbye line.So u know wat I tink right....O is d one!!

Lola said...

first time on your blog aphrodite........now i've been inspired and want to start my own!

ps - i like O

tankojjetty said...

Hey its me again...
would like to have you as a guest in my next "conversation with a babe" on my blog...
you can view previous conversations here

http://18andabove.blogspot.com/2008/08/thursday-310708-conversations-with-babe.html

thanks

Scribblers Inc said...

all the wishes comin out to you O!!:D

scribblers inc.

Aphrodite said...

@afro,sorry babes. There was a mix up somewhere. Rectified now tho. YOu have a point. I cant be taking him seriously right now.

@ms. O, take things slow? i dont even think am going fast but lets see....

@naijalines, sister, it's a real struggle but yes, am trying to use my head but the flesh is weak o,lol...

@funms, am treading carefully, thanks
@zara, no babes. I dont need to marry sharply but then we need to have a focus now, dont we?

@badderchic, yea i guess it all comes back to me at the end.

@mz.dee, you think babes? Mr Right doesn't grow on trees o...how do i know that the next guy would even be better?

@LG *Rubbing red ears*, you wantkill me?lol...I know what you have always told me babes but then are you right?

@30+, i havnt decided nada yet o...

@jarrai, i wish i was as hopeful as you darling but hey...lets see...

@genius, am treading softly from now on...the guy seems to know he has be eating from his palms now and is misbehaving...

@nice guy, sign from above ke?lol...

@princesa, yea i know what you feel dearie but you know every every now...

@simi, yes o! Shout am with me abeg...

@esmeralda,*clapping for you*,how did the surprise party go dear? Thanks for the love.

@ibiluv,babes that ur theory no work for this case o...

@uzezi, thanks dear. Ur comment is so true. My younger bros was telling me the other day that he has found his wife meanwhile how many yrs the bobo dey sef?lol...

@fineboy agbero, abeg no vex bros. X? I no be im keeper now. So u no trust O?

@nikki, i wish babes...i wish...

@lola, glad i was an ispiration girl.So u opened the blog now?

@tanko, no wahala as long as i dont compromise my anon status o,lol...would love to be ur guest.

Aphrodite said...

@scribblers, lol...what wishes bro?

Lady said...

oh ma gosssssssssh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I CANT WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT..LEMME GO READD OTHA POST!!!!!!
P.S:XOXO

Tigeress said...

lol! Good luck with finding Mr. Right.

Aphrodite said...

@tigeress,thanks.