(Heavy sigh)Hmmph…
What do you do when the man you love so deeply doesn’t give a hoot about your feelings?
I know…
Forget him.
But why is it so hard to do?
What do you do when your every waking thought is just about this guy and he obviously isn’t sparing you any thought?
I know…
Let go and let him be.
But it just seems impossible.
What do you do when he doesn’t call, doesn’t pick up when you do, doesn’t call back and doesn’t even reply ur text messages?
I know…
Have some pride and don’t call too, he obviously doesn’t want to hear your voice which is why he hasn’t called.
But it’s taking all my will power restraining myself from calling him.
He says he cares…
But is this how to show it?
By giving me the cold shoulder?
Oh love! LOVE!!
I searched for you…
Found you…
But you don’t want to stay with me…
Don’t I deserve you?
Don’t I deserve to be happy and bask in the love of someone I desire?
If you leave me, Love…
I just might let you be and search no more.
PS: Sorry for the long silence. Just been too depressed to write anything that won’t be gloomy and I didn’t want to spread the sadness too.
I hope I can come back here soon to give you guys the real gist as usual.
Love you all.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Depressed...
Posted by Aphrodite at 5:56 AM
Labels: Complicated, Heartbreak, Issues, Love, Musing, O, Sad, Search
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Aphrodite, pele. Breaking up really sucks especially when u're not ready to let go. But as i always say it'll eventually get better- it's a gradual process. a day will come and u'll wonder what u ever saw in him.
Hurray am second!
Sorry babes, I shouldn't be rejoicing when you are obviously so sad.
Take it easy, what's urs is urs. No one can take it away from you and if it isnt urs, urs will come!
kpele. if he was never like this before, then u might have to let it go, cos that might be his way of saying he's not interested.
if he has always been like this, yoou guys might have to talk- bearing in mind that the conclusion of such talks might not be rosy.
sorry dear.
omo pls what is UP WITH THESE GUYSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS THIS IS EXACTLY THE SAME THING IN MY POST... gosh!!!!!! GUYS HAVE COMMUNICATION ISSUES THAT IS MY CONCLUSION /THEY DONT LIKE U N R LYING!
Unofrtunately, i think its mutual -- both guys and girls have issues with love.. Maybe its this loving-someone more-than-they-love-you business....*Sighs* God dey o..
Sorry dear, if he is yours he will come back.
I hope you ain't getting it twisted o. Good luck!
*sigh*
ndo' dear but i agree with princess,' wats urs is definitely urs
it is well!!!
*thank God for life
@tigeress, thanks dear.
@princesa, i guess so...
@bumight, well not that we hadnt been having issues like forever but things used to be better.This attitude is quite new.
@misslove,guys! U dont love them wahala, you love them, even more wahala!
@danny, yea yea. I guess...
@lusciousron, u are right.
@naijalines, twisted? How? Pls explain.
@lg, thanks babes.
Pele dear. I av bn wondering what was going on with u. take it easy with urself o. I know breaking up is hard but u dont even need any advise from anyone cos u already stated what it is that u need to do. I still think u should take some time out to be with u and make it all abt u so u can think things thru. Starting over is not so bad dear.
Sorry sweetie..this sucks but please take it easy xxx
@Iwalewa, u make it sound so easy dear. I just pray for strenght.
@jarrai, thanks babes.
Chei as some one that has never been in love...(okay I've been in crush/lust) I really don't know what to say o...but as tygress said...things can only get better...for me o...when it comes to crushing a crush or killing a lust...I just focus on other important major issues...a very difficult process I must say...but it is worth the grind!!!chill out with friends,meet that deadline @ work before time...join a gym(even if you're thinner than thin it self!)...dance till you can't feel your legs...cook up a storm(you may want to watch the waistline though lol)...just get busy...by the time you're through...I believe you would have gotten over him...but if that is not the case...then ask God...ohh as a matter of fact, ask Him before you decide to do one or all off the above...but if the feeling doesn't go away...hmmmn then may be it is true love...but he's gotta love you right back(As in you can even liberate yourself by saying to him" I love you...but it is ALL or NOTHING") knowing the truth and acknowledging it always sets us free...I could give you example of how I've done this but that'll be an epistle!...a bit of "tough loving" from your friends to you will help!!!...keep your head up HIGH!!!
Just thought about you today and here you are.
You will live long... they say so in my area on such occurrences.
Just be strong. The important thing is that stick to good friends and that you are back amongst us.
Cheers from Roma
Charles
wow. DEEP. really DEEP.Take it easy o.
wow... u must be goin thru a lot. sha, me i neva liked that O guy. Please don't give up on the entire love thing because of him. He doesnt deserve you if he can't be into you... I can't wait for you to bounce back to your bubbly self.
luv u 2
xoxo
I hope you're okay Aphrodite...
APHrnDite.nothn do u.is it dude dat u met mom dat is behaving like dis?wt did catholic sis say.im sure d mom mite hv a lot 2 do with dis.pls try n ignor dis bobo 4 a while.do oda stuf as recomended.he wil com bk 2 his senses.
hey hon, its never easy, you will be alrite hon...m here for ya if you need some1 to vent to...xoxo
i bet this is Mr. C's doing...or is that too wild a guess??!! my dear, abeg you deserve love...i've been asking myself the same thing recently and i found the answer. YES!! we deserve the love of good men, not second rate bullshit. heck, i'm getting upset for you.
aww sweetie!! time heals all..Am sure you would soon be fine...xoxo
@nolimit, I so appreciate ur advice dear. Thanks.
@chukbyke,Amen o! I hope to live long. Thank God for friends like you.
@naijaidol, thanks.
@tales, yea i hope to get back to being my usual self as soon as i can get over this guy.
@jaycee, i am not. I could do with ur prayers right now.
@miz-cynic, yes o! As a matter of fact , his mum has nothing to do with this. We talk regularly we are very chummy. She doesnt even know that he is acting this way to me and i dont want to call her to complain.Dont want her influencing anything.
@shona, thanks for being there love. Your comment is heart lifting.
@anyaposh,lol...pls dont get upset for me. I used to think everyone deserved to love and be loved back but now, heck i dont know any more...
@ms.o, i hope so too.
Girl what will be will be
all things work out for good for those who love the Lord
keep your chin up
it will get better in time
but all things said, no man is worth sacrificng your happiness for
...don't we all go through these experiences? Not to worry, 'twill pass then, they would wish they had known better.
Listen. If he is yours .. then he will come back begging. TRUST me I know what I'm on about. The question then will be if YOU want him back. I pray God gives you comfort. Btw pls stop contacting him. Don't txt, call or anything. Just do nothing!!!
My darling, dearest aphrodite, i have missed u!
Sad to hear abt O! I really wish some magic prince would come and sweep u off ur feet and make u fall madly in love with him so u can just wipe O from your mind!
Hope everything goes well dear. Take care!
hmmm, is it time for me to gloat?
No, i dare not. I sincerely feel ur pain, seein dat i have heart-issues of my own. But it's time to use ur head instead of ur heart.
And here's an advice a friend gave me when i was pining for love: "Never chase what's yours; it will come."
D man dat will love u as much as u love him will come. hence, dont waste ur love on ppl dat dont deserve it.
Be strong jo!
Aww sweetie..
Do u know how much i hoped O wudnt mess up????
*sighs*
May God grant u the strength n will to move on n may He bless u with someone u truly deserve, amen.
*hugs*
Pele my dear, it will get better, keep ur mind occupied, watch a lot of naija movies and just know that something better is coming along the way my dear. PELE.
Pele my dear, it will get better, keep ur mind occupied, watch a lot of naija movies and just know that something better is coming along the way my dear. PELE.
hmmmmmmmmm
take it easy, dear. all things work 4 good, u'd see
@missDM, thanks babes.
@rethots, hope so...
@nice anon, thanks. Will take ur advice. Its hard but i'll try. Sent him two texts yesterday, still no reply.I gotta stop.
@mizchif, awwwwh...thank lovey. Funnily, i had a dream recently where a charming prince swept me off my feet and we got married. I ope it comes to pass.
@FBAgbero, thanks for not gloating. that advice sounds reasonable. Will definitely take it. Hope u come through ur own issues too.
@buttercup,Amen. thanks babes.
@laughter,lol...ur remedy(Naija movies) cracked me up dear.
@ibiluv,hmmmmm...
@FFF,was expecting a longer comment,lol...thanks dear.
The more u think about the whole thing the more depressed u're gonna get.
Get urself busy, do things u like,engage in ur hobbies, hang out with friends that are fun to be with and u'll loose this depressed state u're in.
Thats a way to get urself from getting into a worse state
Look at urself...ure prolly too good for him!
Looks like you got it bad.
Kpele luv
mehnnnnnnnn....i wish i had the perfect words for you...THERES NOTHING I CAN SAY THAT YOU DONT KNU ALREADY.......
*LOVE WILL FIND YOU..BECAUSE YOU ARE DEF WORTHY OF IT*
*bigggesssstttttt hug..........4 sluppy kisssesssssss*
p.s: KOKO lurrrrrrrrveS you. XOXO
Baby mi, it may be hard, but you know the right thing 2 do. It may not seem like it, but there are plenty fishes in the sea. One door has to close for another to open. Don't waste your time over this one. Move on.
Kpele my darling. I know the feeling. Give yourself time to hurt and grieve and cry before you move on. Healing will come...
sweetheart, i hope u r alright!
@ aphrodite: u were expecting a longer comment? lol. no dear. i can see dat u r hurting, so all i want to do now is comfort u. not say anything dat others have already said b4 - heck, things i've already said b4! it's well, dear. u'd b fine. dat i know 4 sure. hand in there, love. it'd all work out 4 good.
its not easy, but u still have to pull urself together, love shuld bring happiness and not cause u pain.....think about this pls
Thanks guys...thanks!
@ms. emmotions, i just realised this. Tanks.
Nothing is ever really easy. But dat doesnt mean u can't stand n b strong. Life n love is soooo complicated. Try n do tins to take ur mind off tins right now n simply take each day as it comes. But beliv u'll be FINE!!!!!
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