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Wednesday, August 12, 2009

THE EVIL THAT MEN DO....

I met him a couple of months ago.

Handsome, Suave, Good dresser(you all know how i heart this!), Funny, Caring, Godfearing (I thought) and a lot more...
I should have seen the red sign blinking, I mean one couldn't be that perfect yet unsnagged by all this Lagos Chicks wey their eye dey red(I follow o!),lol...

I was wary though...
Coming from where I was with O and all...
I wasn't ready to commit my emotions to another guy just yet.
Despite his insistence that I let him in, I fastened the door to my heart and buried the key.

And just when I thought, maybe this guy was for real and decided to open up the door ajar. It turns out he was just a PRETENDER-a wolf in sheep clothing!

Somebody please tell me, are there still good guys out there?????!!!!

I can't believe that all the time, he was pleading with me: "Give me a chance baby to prove myself. I want something serious with you...Girl, I'm in LOVE with you...bla bla bla"...

...this dude was very very MARRIED!

When I heard it from E, I thought she was joking until I saw the wedding website and pictures.
It was a mega Shock for me....I mean, stuff like this was only supposed to happen in the movies and books and to make it worse, he had only just been married three months!!!

What was his agenda?

To get me to love him back, jump into his bed(I almost did o...yes he was the guy from last post) and then what??

Some guys are just bastards!

P.S: He has been calling, begging me to allow him explain. Explain what abeg??!! I just pity im wife.

35 comments:

rethots said...

"Somebody please tell me, are there still good guys out there?????!!!!" hmmm, do you really want to know?
"Some guys are just bastards!"

rethots said...

Okay, now listen.....a babe's instinct is always never ever wrong. You followed your instinct till "And just when I thought,..." you never think these things. Thinking is most times trying to re-rationalise your instinct to line up with your want. Most important, you weren't burnt.

Rather than indulging him to 'explain', you probably have to educate him that, all he has to do is to keep walking side-by-side with his wife the rest of the journey without an option of choice. As long as he is still married.

P'sy-A-wana said...

yes there are still good guys out there, but you are in for a long search...hang in there

Rita said...

Does he want u as 2nd wife?
There are still good guys out there...I hope you meet a good, loving and faithful one soon...

doll said...

explain ke...fling him an his bad luck far...he is just a bastar

doll said...

bastard i meant...is he looking for a 2nd wife...???

There are gd men out there..just be patient, prayerful and alert

Repressed One said...

Oh my word!!! what absolute foolery is this?? This is the bastard that said--“Come on baby, it don’t matter, I won’t come inside of you…"

lol. chei, God save us ohhhhhhh!!

...for real tho...what was his agenda? why?

I tire mehn...

sorry this happened to you oh...at least you found out before you got any deeper.

The Girl with the Red Hair said...

The guys is just a plain bastard.

Tigeress said...

LMHO!! I'm sooooooo sorry for laughing but i busted out laughing as soon as i read he was married. Na wa o!! God help us women.

My dear- take heart-there ARE good men out there. I have met a few and i'm sure there are still single ones out there.

marilyn said...

thats very typical of the nigerian man.him get luck sef say u b good girl.if na some girls wen no dey hear,im wife no go see am again.

mizchif said...

YAY!!!

OUCH!

CHAI!!!, na wa oh! imagine the nonsense, not just for you but for his wife, for her mind now she be newly wed. If he is cheating 3mnths into the marriage, during the so-called "honey-moon" period, pray tell what would happen 10yrs down the line?

Umu nwoke ehn.

My sister i also wonder myself where the good men are and if there are any left. Hopefully they will find us.

leggy said...

dont let him explain anything..just cut him off...cos from explaining..before u no it ull allow urself be the other woman who is hurting an innocent woman...nd just 3 months?na wa oh.

Nice Anon said...

So sad but this is the reality out there.

chayoma said...

First instincts are 99% on the money.
But damn, only three months and he is looking for someone to shag (what else wld he possibly be looking for?)
So sad!
When u do find the good men, please holla at a sista :)

Fabulo-la said...

Explain ke?
He don lost his damn mind.
May God help us single women sha...

Trybes said...

Chai!--some guys are really mean..i mean,why lie?
Dont think of me as a saint but i will Never lie just to get sex from a woman..Its either of two things..you want me or not..
Good enuff you found out on time and didnt fall a victim but trust me when i say there's still a whole bunch of good guys out there keepin it real with their lives and im proud to say Im top on that list...

Cheers..

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LG said...

babe' shine ya eyessssssss!!!

Uzezi said...

are r nice guys alright aphrodite. all u ve to do is pray n let God guide your ways n direct u, n help u recognise when ur man has come home.

thank God u discovered the pretence.

Tisha said...

terrible
the poor woman must still be reeling from the wonderful wedding while her philandering husband has moved on.

Sad (tear!)

~Sirius~ said...

Ok,
I knew something bad, But I didn't expect him to be MARRIED!

What he forgot to tell you that piece of information?!
Really.......

Guys, guys, guys.......you're not Kids!!!

Gosh!

FFF said...

haba!!!! Aphrodite baby! How did d series we are doing on blogville manage to be reality 4 ur life?????

But chill sha, shit happens. we've all gone through it.

LusciousRon said...

My dear, I tire for all these Lagos men o! Thank God you found out on time. Imagine this scenario, my friend was dating this dude. We were all sick of hearing how perfect he was. Only for a mutual friend to invite her for a random wedding. Guess who was getting married? Yes u guessed right. Mr. perfect!

Just ignore him.

What Nigerian Women deal with. said...

wow, this is rather annoying, i doubt they are any good men out there. maybe 1 percent left. marilyn is right, typical naija man behavior. they havnt met their match yet, lol, foolishness.

Buttercup said...

Oh no..that totally sucks! I'm so sorry :(

tobenna said...

Some guys are just bastards huh?
Some chics are just basterds!
Just teasing.
The guy just wanted a booty call.

You'll find one of us soon.
I promise you.

princesa said...

Egbele o!
My sis, this one na serious ASSHOLE!

What some men can do just for a piece of arse eh!

Easy, Easy...

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

You need to borrow Buttercups' friend's running shoes and run!!!!!!
dont even wait for the explanation

Nice Anon said...

Update us on Holland dude and Bobo nice na. make we kuku know wetin dey happen for that side.

Vera Ezimora said...

I'm with Nice Anon. Whatever happened to Bobo Nice? He was my fav.

As this for married dude, maybe he's not married. Perhaps, he has an identical twin. Hehehehe.

Babe, be thankful it's over. Next --> Bobo Nice!

QMoney said...

hi dear,thanks for your message.i appareciate.

I am sure his explanation will be on the lines of "they are having issues....he's getting a divorce......ANUOFIA"

I saw d sensibly horny post,thank God for God oh,i can't imagine how pissed u'd have been to realize his marital status after the "do"...God go "bless" that guy according to his actions....

Fragilelooks said...

i won't generalize here.i still believe we ave some good guys out dere. bt this one here is a typicall DICK.he's gt nufn to offer u.

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Aphrodite said...

@everyone, thanks for ur comments.
@princesa, i saw u ooooo...he he he

Adekunle Shobowale said...

Enough of the men hating already...
There are plenty of good men out there. You need to understand Men first i reckon.

Having said that, this particular dude in this post is a dirty Dog.